Monday 14 January 2013

The Colours of your Life


The colour of your life is, in part, taken from the colours and vibrancy of your friends. Your life is like a patchwork quilt in which you are but a single square with your friends surrounding you. If you are lucky you will be part of an enormous quilt of friends, enough to wrap around you when you feel cold. Some people are not so lucky and have only a few colours to warm them.

If you are lucky enough to be part of a magnificent quilt take a moment to think where your friends came from. For quilts to grow and be strong they need the strong threads that hold them together.

In life it is special people who are those threads. Generous with their friends and always looking for those whose patchwork support is slight or damaged. Those who are new to an area, those who have gone through bad times, those who lack the social skills to fit in easily. These special people, these golden threads in life, will find ways to introduce those people to others, to help them join in, to help the build or rebuild their patchwork of friends.

Do you do that? Do you reach out beyond your own circle to allow others a way to join?

I write this because there is one special lady I know who I have watched introduce people over the last four years. Selfless, caring and without the need for self attention. A truly beautiful golden thread indeed and one who we should try to emulate.


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